Weddings Ceremonies at Gate Street in the heart of the Surrey Hills

Occasionally I’ve arrived at a venue all geared up to lead a knockout wedding ceremony and immediately it gives you the feels. ‘Oh yes, I am going to love this place!’ and that is just what I thought when I first arrived at Gate Street for Lucy & Stewart’s wedding back in August 2022.  

Gate Street had been on my radar as one of Surrey’s most gorgeous wedding venues since I started out as a celebrant in 2018. Now I was getting the full experience with officiating a wedding in their beautiful barn, and it didn’t disappoint. I’ve been lucky to return to lead wedding ceremonies at Gate Street several times since, and every time I love it that bit more. Being a recommended supplier with them these days is the icing on the cake!  

So let’s explore some ideas for your wedding ceremony at Gate Street…

Barn, Gardens or Woodland Ceremony?

You are spoilt for choice with wedding ceremonies at Gate Street, and it feels like there’s a location for everyone. The barn is the natural starting point with its gorgeous vaulted ceiling and oak beams. Light floods in from the atrium which is also a perfect spot for musicians if you are having live music. Adding foliage to the beams gives a romantic feel too. The bridal party enter from the back of the barn with some clever double doors which ensure that no-one sees the bride and her party until the big moment arrives. And Leanne and Holly are of course on hand to make sure your entrance is perfect.

If you like the thought of getting married outdoors with a garden style wedding, then Farmhouse Avenue provides the perfect backdrop. It’s nestled in the landscaped gardens with gorgeous views over the Surrey Hills as you say your vows with your F&F looking on. You can also get creative with the space here. Maybe a flower arch as the focal point while your guests sit in a horseshoe curve so everyone is close to the action. The Pheasantry bar and Orangery are just a few steps away for the all-important drinks and canapes after the ceremony.

Or does something more rural appeal? How about a ceremony in the woods surrounded by mature trees and shrubs with nature all around you. The Woodland is just dreamy for a summer solstice wedding. Think wildflower bouquets, hurricane lanterns and the shady arbour decorated with local foliage. Your guests sit on cute wooden benches while you stand in front of the rustic, open sided arbour as your wedding celebrant tells your love story. This is the perfect setting for romantic symbolic gestures too such as a handfasting with cords and ribbons to match your colours. Weddings here are truly magical, your photos will be too. And you are still just a short stroll from the comfort of the Pheasantry and Orangery.

Woodland wedding with flowers and benches in front of the rustic arbour
Woodland wedding ceremony

Legal Wedding or Celebrant Led Ceremony?

Thankfully, all of the wedding ceremony spaces at Gate Street are licensed for Civil Ceremonies so this doesn’t need to limit your options. They also have gorgeous space for your pre-meeting with the registrar. But if you’d like your wedding ceremony to have some personal touches, that reflect you as a couple, then a celebrant led wedding is a great option. This can include anything you choose… Your love story, marriage advice from those with plenty of experience, a family unity circle with your children, or a heart-warming sing-along. The awesome staff at Gate Street also welcome your furry family members. So how about your pooch bringing up your wedding rings! Creating each wedding ceremony to match their couple is what wedding celebrants do best.

But what if you want your legal wedding and your celebrant led wedding on the same day? No problem. In Spring 2024 I led a fun filled wedding ceremony at Gate Street for Emma & Ollie. This directly followed their legal wedding in the Barn. So, all of their F&F got to witness them committing to each other and signing on the dotted line. Then we went straight into the celebrant wedding. They saved their ring exchange for this part of their celebrations and this followed them making personal vows which they wrote together. We also had some hilarious anecdotes about the two of them from their closest friends. Then I relayed secret words from the bride and groom on what they love most about each other. It was a perfect combination of registrar legal stuff and celebrant fun, no need to choose!

Emma and Ollie being showered with confetti by the their guests in the driveway
Emma & Ollie’s confetti moment!

How About the After Party?

Straight after the wedding ceremony I like to arrange a confetti walkway with all of the guests lining up, confetti at the ready. At Gate Street, the gravel driveway provides the perfect setting for the confetti moment with the barn in the background. The bride and groom appear from the glassy front entrance to get well and truly covered in confetti!


Then, of course, it’s on to the drinks and canapes. The gardens are just right for sipping champagne and nibbling filled croustades while catching up with all your guests. And you can save the teepee for warming drinks late into the evening. The Barn or Pheasantry are prepared for your wedding breakfast depending on your numbers. With exclusive use at Gate Street, and accommodation too, you have the whole place to make your own.

There are plenty of options for your wedding photo shoot. From cosying up alongside the sheep, to flower laden courtyards, and tree lined walkways.

Gate Street does seem to have it all, really. You can meet the team and find out more about weddings at Gate Steet here https://www.gatestreet.co.uk/weddings. And don’t miss their amazing photo gallery https://www.gatestreet.co.uk/gallery

Can’t wait to see you there! Find out more about my wedding ceremonies here https://www.silverbeeceremonies/ceremonies/weddings

How to write your own wedding vows

Exchanging personal wedding vows to each other is a truly special moment in your big day. But how do you set about writing your own wedding vows?

This might seem like a daunting prospect among everything else that’s on your long to do list in the build up to your wedding, but following these simple steps will help guide you through writing wedding vows that work for you.

  • Agree at least an hour of uninterrupted time for the two of you and get comfy
  • Get Googling to see what already exists for some inspiration! There are plenty of suggestions out there and you can take ideas from different vows to create your own
  • With your recent Google finds in mind, think about the most important commitments that you want to make to each other for your future together. Don’t worry about the specific words for now just jot down ideas such as ‘to always be honest and open’ or ‘to make decisions together’ or ‘support each other to follow your dreams’
  • Next think about any individual words do you want to include in your vows? Maybe ‘sharing’ is important to you, ‘supporting’ each other or remaining ‘independent’
  • You can now start planning the structure for your vows. There are several ways you can start your vows such as:

I Joe take you Helen to be my lifelong partner and lover
Helen, I will always love and respect you

Then follow on with the commitments you have already agreed, in the form of promises such as:

I promise to support you and to help you follow your dreams
I will share my life with you, giving only the best of me to you

To finish off add a closing line such as:

I make these promises to you with all my heart
I promise to do this throughout our lives whatever our future may hold

  • Aim for 6 or 8 lines in total for your vows. Simple and sincere is the key
  • Once you have created your draft vows share these with your celebrant who can help you refine them if needed
  • Remember you don’t have to make the same promises to each other, choose what works best for you
Example wedding vows:

Helen, I will always love and respect you

I invite you to share my life as I hope to share yours

I promise to support you and help you to follow your dreams

I will try to bring you happiness and laughter

I will seek to achieve with you the life we have envisioned

Throughout our lives whatever our future may hold

 

Joe, you are my best friend and livelong partner

I promise to laugh with you, cry with you, and grow with you

I promise listen to you and to learn from you

I will love you when we are together and when we are apart

I will have faith in your love for me

Through all our years and all that life may bring us